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Well, here we are at ‘that time of year’ again, when children get excited, someĀ  people make plans, some get real grumpy at the mention of anything Christmassy (you know who you are!!) and others like me reflect quietly about Christmas past.

I was born in the fifties and brought up as a roman catholic, my dad was Irish and staunch catholic, my mum had tried every other religion before and found converting to Catholicism to be right for herĀ  so Christmas was very much about celebrating the birth of Jesus during my childhood.

Don’t get me wrong – there were presents and rowdy family parties but Christmas Eve was really special to me when I was tiny – I was sent to bed early then gotten up at 11 pm to get ready for midnight mass. There I saw the nativity scene in church completed as the priest placed the baby Jesus in the manger before the service.

I remember looking into the sky as we walked home from mass just to check whether I could see Santa’s sleigh – and then rushing into the house to place our own baby Jesus into the manger of our nativity scene. This, for me, was such a magical time.

My own children have been brought up in much the same way – they could both, I am sure, tell many stories about Christmas magic and I am quite sure they will both continue to do so when they have their own children.

Next week I shall put my Christmas tree up in the corner of the lounge – the tree has been replaced many times since my childhood but the ornaments are still very much in evidence. Some are from my Mum’s childhood, some from mine and some from my children’s – the tree is always a myriad of little magical memories. (I may take some photos and show you when I am decorating it. And that very nativity scene is still in use.

This Christmas will be a quiet time – my partner (who cannot stand the event) is taking himself off in the caravan out of the way in a further attempt to escape Christmas. I don’t know why he thinks that will work – nothing else has up to now. I am joining him on Boxing Day complete with a Christmas dinner. My son and daughter-in-law will be coming up the weekend before but I am sure they will be available on web cam on the day – that leaves me and my daughter. I may try midnight mass on Christmas eve…..

My daughter will be at work in the morning so I will be setting the timer on my oven to deal with the dinner, then going out to visit the local elderly and infirm people to take them some of my mince pies, some of my time and maybe a little bit of magic to bring a smile to their faces.

Then in the afternoon my daughter, her boyfriend and I will celebrate our Christmas together with a little webcam madness from my son.

Not the magic of my childhood maybe or of my children’s – just a different kind of magic!!